Friday, August 14, 2009

Momzilla...

I'm a crappy Mom and I'm not proud of it :( .

Taking care of a sick son, handling a soon to be terrifying three daughter, being at home 24-7, doing all the housework, minimum adult interaction and being cooped-up at home have taken a toll on me.

I'm depressed, tired, cranky, moody, angry, irritable, short-fused and bitter all rolled into one.

Forgive me, my children. It's not entirely you. Mommy just needs to vent out, let it off my chest and sulk in a corner for a while. Let's hope this momzilla mode will go off soon.

11 comments:

KS said...

kak, u're not terriblelah. in fact u're one great mom! bukan senang nak jadi sahm tau. i ni kadang2 kena cuti untuk jaga budak sehari dua pon boleh bikin stress level naik. apa lagi u. so it's ok akak. :)

lepas ni pi spa manja2kan diri tu... hehehe

NORA ANSHAR said...

thanks for the encouraging words :) . really appreciate it.

ye lah... lepas ni nak pi buat facial spa kat clarins la. bagi hilang stress sket.

doubleaye said...

Clarins spa is GOOD!!!

NORA ANSHAR said...

no doubt about it! :) now to find the time which is forever eluding me *sighhhh*

dikwirina said...

hello, i'm a fellow sahm too. we're comrades!

NORA ANSHAR said...

hie dikwirina!

thank you for reading and taking the time to comment :) . yes, we sahms should definitely stick together :):)

Syareena said...

K.Noresh, I salute u lah and all SAHMs. I pun selalu je changed to a momzilla and I REALLY REALLY wish I had not. Menyesal sangat everytime after that. But sometimes we had to lah kan. Cheer up! U are one of my idol in parenting ok.

NORA ANSHAR said...

thanks syareena :)

yes, sometimes i wish i could take it all back tapi dah terbuat, tak boleh nak tarik balik. pastu nyesal tak sudah.

please, i belum sampai tahap boleh jadi idol lagi. in fact, i'm less than perfect. but thanks anyway, you made my day hehehhe...

Email: beadingtreasure@gmail.com said...

Noresh,

I took 3 days off 2 weeks ago because I fired my old maid. It was a 3 days of non-stop house chores and I was dead tired and cranky to my kids and husband. There's no way I can be a full time SAHM. The office is like a resting place for me. So I really2 respect all the SAHM, including u.The spa is a good place to de-stress.

NORA ANSHAR said...

zai, thanks :) that means a lot to me and all other SAHMs.

dah dapat maid baru ke belum?

Zaihasra Manik Jepun said...

dah ..on the 3rd day..temporary maid..on trial dulu..if ok, kitaorg ambil permanent. I can't function normally without a reliable maid :)